To Read Tami's Story from the Beginning
Thursday, November 11, 2010
A Critical Need for Black Marrow and Stem Cell Donors Exists
Also needed are people of mixed ethnicities meaning if you are Black and Caucasian, Asian, Hispanic, Latino, Native American or any other ethnic combination your participation in the donor program is desperately needed as patients of mixed heritage have an even harder time finding a marrow or stem cell match. Their chance of finding match is even less than 4 in 23.
The range to begin effective matching is 10,000 - 20,000 potential donors. The optimal number of Black donors in Canada is 70,000 - 80,000. As you'll see below the actual statistics are currently less than 2000, a fraction of the range needed to effectively find a match for Black patients in need.
By The Numbers 2010:
New black registrants in Canada between Oct 2009 and 2010: 211
Total Black registrants in Canada in October 2010: 1644
New black registrants in Quebec between October 2009 and 2010: 3
Total Black registrants in Quebec in October 2009: 65
By The Numbers 2009:
New black registrants in Canada between Oct 2008 and 2009: 217
Total Black registrants in Canada in October 2009: 1433
New black registrants in Quebec between October 2008 and 2009: 38
Total Black registrants in Quebec in October 2009: 62
Where to go in Canada to learn how to join the donor program:
In Quebec: http://www.hema-quebec.qc.ca/
In Canada: http://www.onematch.ca/
In the United Kingdom: http://www.aclt.org/
In the U.S. you can register through http://BeTheMatch.org. If you are a match for a Canadian patient your stem cells can be harvested here in the U.S. and flown to Canada, or anywhere in the world, to help save a patient's life. The truth is that with the exceptions of South Africa and the island of Martinique, most of the countries and islands that where Black ethnic groups are predominate do not have marrow registration organizations (this includes most of Africa) so it's crucial for people of Black ethnicities who want to help and live in countries that do have registries to join them and become part of the international donor pool.
I keep a list on the Helping Tami.org website where you can see if the country you live in has a registry. CLICK HERE to view the international list of registries.
My friend Tamu posted these Canadian statistics on Facebook today. Tamu lost her brother Emru to Leukemia on November 11, 2008. There is a critical need for marrow and stem cell donors but particularly donors who are Black as they are grossly under represented in the national and international marrow registries. This means people from all Black geographic regions including people from Africa and the West Indies (Jamaica, Haiti, Trinidad and Tobago, and Barbados) are needed to be potential donors to patients in need.
Friday, June 18, 2010
Please Vote to Support Kids Undergoing Marrow Transplants
NASCAR driver Jimmie Johnson has a dream to provide financial relief for kids undergoing bone marrow transplants through the Be The Match Foundation. Your vote will decide if his idea is funded by Pepsi Refresh. No registration needed. Just click on the vote button under Jimmie's picture. That's him to the left. Thanks for any help!
CLICK HERE to vote online
Monday, May 17, 2010
Be The Match on YouTube
Visit Be The Match's new YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/bethematch. There you will find videos about patients, donors, the donation process, and more.You can help spread the word about the marrow donor program by posting the latest videos to your blog, Twitter and Facebook accounts!
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
If You Live in California Your Help is Needed

The "Michelle Maykin Memorial Donation Protection Act,” will allow private and public sector employees paid time off for organ or marrow donation. Donors would no longer have to worry about the financial burden of their gift. We know that this will ultimately lead to more registered donors and more lives saved.Please Sign the Petition
The following post is from Michelle's blog and was written by her sister Melanie on behalf of her family:
It’s been 8 months since Michelle left us and the pain is still raw. There is a huge emptiness inside me and I continue to grieve for what has happened. I hang on to so many of the moments I shared with Michelle, afraid as more time passes that I am leaving her behind.
We continue to honor Michelle’s wishes and are focused on helping patients so that something positive can come from this horrible reality. My mom has been working hard with political leaders and the community to continue helping those in need of bone marrow transplants. In February, Senator Mark DeSaulnier of Concord, CA introduced Senate Bill 1304, the “Michelle Maykin Memorial Donation Protection Act,” that will allow private and public sector employees paid time off for organ or marrow donation. Donors would no longer have to worry about the financial burden of their gift. We know that this will ultimately lead to more registered donors and more lives saved.
HOW YOU CAN HELP
For SB 1304 to pass, it has to go through the legislative process. The next step is for the bill to go through the Senate Labor and Industrial Relations Committee where it is reviewed and then voted up or down. The committee hearing will be held on April 14, 2010. Here is how you can help pass SB 1304 out of the Senate Labor and Industrial Relations Committee and move it to the next step of the legislative process:
1) Sign our online petition to show the widespread community support for SB 1304.
Link for Online Petition
2) Tell your friends and family to sign the petition
3) Fill the room at the Hearing on April 14 in Capitol Building (9:30 am in Room 2040)
4) Spread the word by emailing friends and family with the above message to get them involved. Log onto your favorite networking sites and ask everyone you know to sign the petition or send a letter of support:
Senator Mark DeSaulnier
State Capitol, Room 2054
Sacramento, CA 95814
Passing this bill was something Michelle dreamed about and worried we couldn’t get done. We are now so close but we need you to succeed. With your help, we can save more lives and prevent families from having to go through what mine is struggling with everyday.
Thank you so much for all your support,
Melanie
Link to pre-drafted letter to be signed: Pre-Drafted Letter
Link to detailed Senate Bill 1304: SB 1304 Bill
Thursday, July 23, 2009
Project Michelle is a success for patients needing a donor
If there can be any good news in Michelle's story, it is the other patients Project Michelle has been able to help while trying to find a donor for Michelle herself.

As you can see below, as a direct result of Project Michelle's efforts, four patients have actually been matches for others in need and donated their stem cells!! Fifteen others are in the process of being tested to be donors and 110 individuals are possible matches. Those statics are just amazing!! Project Michelle has been able to help so many people in need.


Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Roger Contreras hosts his first blood donor drive in Houston, Texas
This is Roger's latest blog post.
"I have had a catheter in my chest for over four months, it has just been removed and I feel free and liberated. To celebrate my independence I will be hosting a blood drive:
The event will begin at 1 p.m.
Dream Rooms Furniture
8622 Eastex Freeway
Houston,TX 77093
59 North & Loop 610
Jesse Valdez is being so kind as to let us use his location for this much needed event. All donors will receive a custom designed shirt and 10% off any furniture purchase. For more details and information on the fine furniture offer please contact (281) 541-3435.
I am in need of donors so please call me at (786) 281-8316. This is the first time I am hosting a blood drive and I need your help to make it a huge success."

Sunday, May 3, 2009
Being a Potential Marrow Donor
Monday, April 20, 2009
We are now on Twitter

Yay!! We have a Twitter. Anyone who's anyone has a Twitter! Helping Tami can now be followed on the Twitter website. If you do not have a Twitter account it is very easy to sign up and free. You are able to "follow" your favorite actors and friends. Everyone posts updates as to what they are doing and you can log on to see where your friends are and what they are up to. It's fun and easy.
Press Page
The first news story is an article written by Sal Pizarro for the Mercury News about Stacie's help supporting Tami and the website. It is a great article. Check it out.Wednesday, April 15, 2009
Fighting MDS and Winning (Update on Roger)
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Cafe Press Order
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Fighting MDS and Winning


The great news is that Roger was recently able to have a bone marrow transplant that will hopefully save his life. It was a long, hard road to get to where he is today. Even though he is healing and still in the hospital, Roger has selflessly agreed to feature Tami on his website and work to help her donor drive as well. As Roger said today in a message to Stacie "right now i have alot of time, and i don't plan on wasting any of it." We cannot even express how much that means to us.
After several days of being violently ill from the chemo used to destroy his marrow to give his donor marrow a chance to engraft, this is Roger finally feeling better and losing his hair a few days later. Here he is a third of the way through having his remaining hair shaved off.
Please CLICK HERE to purchase one of his wrist bands with Paypal. We are requesting a donation of $5 but spreading the word is what's most important so please use the contact page on the website if you'd like a wrist band but can't afford to buy one at this time. Stacie has offered to cover the cost for anyone who wants to help spread the word about Roger's website while her supply lasts.Friday, April 3, 2009
Postcards and Business Cards

Sunday, March 29, 2009
Web Badges to Support the National Marrow Donor Program
If you CLICK ON THIS LINK it will take you to page where you can copy and paste the code you find there to create an image link that your visitors can click on to visit the HelpingTami.org website. When they click on the image their browser will open a new window.
On Tami's web badge page you can choose from the links below:




Wednesday, March 25, 2009
LOL Facebook is covered for now...

I received this message from a friend just now:
Oh, Stacie, I forgot to tell you. I invited all my Asian FB friends to your group. Then I figured the more exposure the better and invited everyone living in the US as well, and told them to pass the word. I didn't think you'd mind.
Another friend alerted the Asian diversity club members lists at her company not realizing that sending out such a request was considered Spam. So then she sent out an apology to everyone but was happy she did it because one person messaged her back that he would order the kit and get tested.
SO YAY!
Thank you so much. I have the best friends ever.












